Paul Carruthers asked:


In a world dominated by computers and technology we take a look at what effect the Internet has had on people’s attitude towards sex and pornography.Pornography and prostitution is nothing new to the world, it has been around for years and years and will carry on to do so, of recent times it appears to be everywhere, sex shops in high streets, top shelf magazines in newsagents, recognised red light zones, legal brothels, mobile phone videos and even porn star name t-shirts are used to promote pornography.Pornography has had many effects on society, it has recently been suggested that violent porn should have a blanket ban due to rapists being influenced by such films. A rapist also admitted that a girl wearing a FCUK t-shirt inspired him to rape her and these are just some of the bad effects of having a wide range of highly accessible porn.Whether it is legal or illegal there will always be prostitution in society due to there being a high demand of men willing to pay for sex and women prepared to accept that money. Brothels have a mixture of good and bad press as they are seen to confine the issue to a particular area, cut curb crawling and sexual activity in public places.If you go back to the early 1900’s sex before marriage was looked upon as the devil’s work, the many unwanted pregnancies due to the lack of protection were dealt with down back alleys in an inhumane fashion. These abortions were a very painful experience and managed to keep many women away from pre-marital sex. Instead of sexual intercourse many lovers decided to perform what was referred to at the time as safe sex, this was a form of foreplay involving the man simulating sex with the females arm pit. Even though this did manage to cut down the unwanted pregnancies the view of pre-marital sex and pornography amongst the world was looked upon in bad light.In these days porn was in literature with racy stories and even these were viewed upon as revolting and unnatural by most, there were few pictures and drawings that existed but nevertheless they did exist, even dating back to the Egyptians with hieroglyphics.The 60’s was a start for sex becoming more acceptable due to the free love period and hippy influence, cannabis was a factor as roadies and hippy’s turned to cannabis to relax and lose their inhibitions. Pornography snowballed from there sparking a huge industry that started out in theatres where nudity was allowed on stage if there was no movement, it then proceeded to still images strung together to simulate movement. Then along came pornography magazines which became popular amongst many ages of men with titles such as playboy and mayfair dominating the market, the amount of money in this industry is clear to see if Hugh Hefner’s playboy mansion is anything to go by. Pornography by this time had a following as single men used it to release any sexual tension built up, although many men were too embarrassed to buy pornography magazines and still the market was socially viewed as inappropriate and looked down upon by many.The internet became main stream in the mid nineties which opened a gateway for people to access pornography anonymously and in the privacy of their own home in the years to come. This proved successful with money in the industry reaching a record high, and pornography reaching the homes of millions of people, the current figure in the UK is that a quarter of Britons view porn across the internet.Men across the world viewed pornography across the internet and felt more confident about viewing such images and movies as they could see the global demand for this market and people started realising that it is perfectly natural. Men had started to openly chat about porn, some found it funny, some informative, some repulsive and for some it became their life.With just soft-core porn available, UK residents visited European countries like Holland and Germany where they were years ahead of the UK in the social acceptance of porn. Hardcore porn was banned in the UK until September 2000; the popularity of internet porn had played its part in the decision to legalise hardcore porn. The breakthrough of playing and transferring media through mobile phones enforced the fact that porn HAS become acceptable in many walks of life as 60% of men own pornography on their mobile phones. This figure without the internet would be considerably lower without the internet as the internet is over 90% of the population’s source of porn.Amongst some, pornography and prostitution are viewed upon similarly although there is a definitive difference, in the majority of countries pornography is legal whilst prostitution is not and then there is the fact that most pornography is viewed/created in privacy whereas prostitution can be a very public affair, although both are welcomed by people across the world.There can be no arguments that pornography has become socially acceptable, the internet has had a major impact on this due to being able to access adult content of any nature anonymously in the privacy of your own home. This has paved the way for other areas in the porn industry to grow alongside internet porn and help turn this market into the multi billion pound industry that it is today.Like it or not porn is now socially acceptable amongst the majority of people under the age of 30.



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Alex Strandberg asked:


The lights are dimmed, shades are down and your favorite scented candles are burning. The mood is just right to say hello to your monster but is masturbating to porn a good thing or not? To answer that question, yes and no. There is no such thing as good or bad but only consequences of your actions. Every consequence is either desirable or undesirable.

Whether the consequences of masturbating are desirable or not depends greatly on your perspective and who you are. It’s not the action in itself that makes something bad but the person who is doing it.

If the action (masturbating) in itself was inherently negative or positive everyone would have the same response to it. If getting off to porn was bad for you then EVERYONE would experience negative consequences when they did it but we know that is not always the case. Some have good consequences while others have horrible negative consequences.

Most people enjoy labeling something as “bad” without ever thinking that they may play a role in their negative experience. Even worse is that they like to tell others that it’s a “bad” idea-”oh no, you shouldn’t do that!”

Negative Consequences of Watching Porn

The first negative consequence of watching porn can be a very detrimental one: pre-mature ejaculation. Nothing is worse than waiting so long to have sex and when you finally get an opportunity to get laid it’s over in a few seconds. You dread looking at the girl to confirm her disappointment in your performance.

Growing up in a house with other people means that you need to break out some sneaky ninja skills when masturbating. You need to be quick, agile and most importantly not get caught. The fear of getting caught causes you to become speedster when it comes to giving yourself the low five. Get it done quickly before anyone discovers what you are doing or feel the shame of getting caught.

Unfortunately this will cause you to cum quickly when you trade in the computer screen for the real thing. Our bodies are good at learning and remembering things. Through muscle memory we learn skills and abilities that surpass conscious thinking. Without body memory no one would be able to play an instrument or drive a car because we would be thinking too much about every little action.

Cumming too quickly is the result of training your body to remember to do so. Over many quick sessions your body develops a stimulus response to seeing a naked woman. Your body knows that when you get sexually excited it’s time to have an orgasm.

Your body will respond the way you train it to. If, for example, you masturbate very quickly your body will respond by cuming quickly as well. On the other hand if you take your time your body will be trained to wait a long period of time before reaching climax.

The mind doesn’t have the ability to tell the difference between fantasy and reality. If you dream it your mind believes it. Whenever you fantasize about sleeping with the girl whose thong was hanging out the entire class you mind believes that to be real. Since you came very quickly in the fantasy your mind will send messages to the body to cum quickly when you run into the same situation in real life.

On top of that your mind likes to generalize and lump everything into one nice, neat category. It doesn’t see unique and special tits, it lumps them all into one category. When you train your mind and body to cum quickly to one naked woman it will transfer that programing over to any other women you see.

Guilt, Shame and Maddona/Whore Complex

Almost everyone has been brought up on the idea that sex and masturbating is something to be ashamed of. Through society, parents and religion we have been taught to hide our sexual nature instead of embracing it. The biggest tactic of getting people to hide their sexuality is through guilt and shame. The more guilt you have the less likely you will to engage in fun sexual acts.

This guilt and shame is triggered (mostly unconsciously) every time you masturbate. You enjoy it in the moment but shortly after the negative emotions start to come to the surface. You feel guilty or shameful every time you “sin” which leads to lower self confidence.

Porn also leads to deepen your Madonna/Whore complex. The programing that you received from church, society and parents helps you to see women in two different ways: the Madonna and the whore. The Madonna is the good girl that you marry and the whore is someone you use for sex.

Porn will give you an unrealistic view of sex and love. As much as you logically know that porn isn’t really how sex is your mind will start to see it that way. You will see women as a masturbation tool and sex as a jack hammer exhibition.

Masturbating will trigger your guilt and shame which will bring up your Madonna/ whore complex issues. Any woman that is sexual and enjoys sex will be seen as a whore through eyes because of your addiction to porn. If you do sleep with a woman you will judge her and yourself for it-no matter what you do you just can’t win.

Distract Yourself

People have many different ways of distracting themselves when they are stressed out or slightly depressed. When I get into that state I like to do absolutely nothing and just relax. Some like to exercise or drink and some like to get off to Internet porn.

There is nothing wrong with taking a break from life from time to time. It will help you to refocus your mind and build your energy back up to handle the difficult task at hand. Taking a break becomes a problem when you use it to completely ignore and distract yourself from what needs to be done.

Unfortunately another con of masturbating is that it is used to distract yourself from life’s problem. There is a thin line from taking a break and turning your back to your issues. Far too often people cross that line and become addicted to their distraction of choice.

Whacking it to porn is a very large distraction for men who are lacking in skills with women. Instead of taking on this challenge head first they resign to a life of distraction in their fantasy world-”out of mind and into porn.”

The problem is that NO matter how hard you try you can never run from your issues. Once you are aware of them there is no going back to blissful ignorance. You can go full force into hiding from them in your porn addiction but they will find you.

A Quick Note before we get to the Positives

I never really bought into the idea that releasing male fluids will drain your life energy. I think it’s complete bullshit that having sex or masturbating, life’s greatest pleasures, will leave you feeling drained.

To me, it seems like the notion that cumming will take away a man’s energy stems from the Church’s belief that masturbating and having sex is a “sin.” It’s essentially the same type of ‘this is bad for you’ programming that the Church is perpetuating.

On a genetic level our goal as individuals is to perpetuate the species through sex. We want to live long enough to pass on our seed to as many people as possible. With that said, it seems wrong to believe that our basic design is flawed and our instincts got it wrong.

We are born to fuck and enjoy sex. We feel drained at times after sex not because we are losing our ‘male energies’ but because we aren’t in great shape. If you worked out and ate right you wouldn’t feel any energy lose.

It turns out that sex is life affirming. Not having sex will cause you to become very anxious and unbalanced. “that guy needs to get laid” is said for a reason. His neurotic behavior can be balanced out by enjoying the basic of needs.

If you have bought into this new age spiritual bullshit that cumming is a bad thing get that out of your head right now. Some of you who can attest to this belief are experiencing a placebo effect. The body reacts to your minds beliefs. If you believe you will feel drained after you cum your body will act in accordance.

Positive Consequences of Watching Porn

That was a long list of negatives but there is some good that can come from watching porn. For starters, it feels damn good. It allows you to release some of the pent up tension and anxiety that rage through your body.

Standards are extremely important when it comes to mastering women. If you give it away for free no one will want it because has little value. Developing standards can be quite difficult if you have been a ‘I’ll take what I can get’ type of guy. Porn can be an easy first step to integrating a higher set of standards.

Most men will jerk off to just about anything. Swim suit models, porn stars, naked women in national geographic magazines, it’s all the same to them. If the guy is remotely attracted to the erotic image he will get off.

Start by identifying what type of women really turn you on and stick to it. What do you like? Is it blonds, short girls, tall ones, punk, goth, black, white? Me personally, I like the type of women that you see on suicide girls. The typical blond bimbo you see gracing the cover of playboy does very little for me.

From there you can start to develop an appreciation for beauty vs. ‘oh my god, she’s so fucking hot.’ When you find a girl that really does it for you take time to appreciate her beauty. Don’t focus solely on her tits and ass. Enjoy her entire body and learn to appreciate how beautiful women really are.

Greater Awareness

I mentioned before that masturbating can bring up a lot of unresolved issues to the surface. Consciously masturbating and being aware when they do come up will allow you to transcend them. Without being able to spot your problems you won’t be able to change.

Once you can see and feel your issues the next step is to let them go. Here’s a little exercise that can help you out:

**note: this exercise may sound a little airy fairy but give it a try and you’ll see why I recommend it***

Lay down on your bed or in a chair with your spine straight and place your hands on the middle of your chest. Breathe deeply and close your eyes. Imagine yourself sitting in a peaceful and serene environment. You are sitting down in front of a river in a wooded area.

Breathe deeply as you think of what is holding you back. If your issue is ’sex is a sin’ reach up into your solar plexus (above your stomach, below your rib cage) with white hands and take hold of those words.

Take the words ’sex is a sin’ and bring it all the way up your spine and out the top of your head. Imagine placing the issue into the bright, white running river. Watch as that issue floats along the white river and disappears.

Repeat this exercise over and over until you have removed your issue. This exercise can be preformed on any belief, thought or emotion that is less than healthy.

Increased Sexual Energy

Do the following exercise lying down flat or in a chair with your spine straight as it can be.

Start by breathing very very deeply and very slowly through your nose and into the lower part of your belly. Breathe deep enough to the point where you feel it in your PC muscle (area between your genitals and your ass). Then slowly breathe out of your nose releasing the air.

Once you have that down, imagine white light coming into your nose from the outside, down your front and into your genitals and a little bit into your legs. Once your belly is full with air slowly breathe out imagining the white light coming up your spin, all the way to the top of your head and out. Then bring the white light down into your belly and up again.

This exercise should be done throughout the day but especially during sex. It will help increase your sexual energy as well as your orgasms.

Last Longer In the Sack

Fast pace masturbating can cause premature ejaculation. Watching porn while you take your time and breathe deeply will allow you to last longer. You will see exciting images and not blow your load.

For exercises to help you last longer sign up for the Inner Game Reframe Newsletter on the right and you will receive a free copy of my ebook-How to Lead Her Sexually. The ebook is full of exercises and insights to help you become a better lover.



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Jerry Leung asked:


Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. You can watch porn with your partner and this can be a good way of communication in terms of sex. However, it can also ruin your sex life. This will happen if you are addicted to porn.

In fact, there are plenty of people in this world who are addicted to porn. It is just like a drug. You will be addicted to it if you watch too much! One may feel really depressed if he is addicted to porn and cannot see it. This does not only affect his sex life but also his normal life everyday.

The question here is: What can you do if you find that you are addicted to porn? First of all, you should try to stay away from it when you have the feeling that you start to be addicted. As discussed, it may ruin your life in the long run. There are support groups for people who are addicted to porn. You may also join these groups for further help. It may be strange for you to think of the idea of addicting to porn. Yes this is true. It is just like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?

When it comes to sexuality, you should never force your partner to do anything he or she dislikes. This is also true for watching porn. You should never force him / her to enjoy porn. This is just another kind of addiction. In the long run, you will just make your partner hate porn if you do so. If you really want your partner to enjoy porn with you, you should start by watching a little bit with him / her and see how he /she reacts.

Remember, you can enjoy porn with your partner. However, you should never addict to porn with your partner. It will render serious problem if both of you are addicted to porn!

If your partner strongly opposes you looking at porn, you should watch it when he / she is not with you. You also have to make sure that there is no track recording that you have watched porn in your computer. If you watch a DVD porn movie, remember to take the DVD out of the DVD player. You will be in trouble if he / she find the porn DVD in the player.



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Tigger Theswinger asked:


A lot of couple that get into swingers normally start by watching porn DVDs from either streaming porn sites or doing what most couples in fact do that’s swap videos with friends probably before they swap wifes LOL and considering that traditional women don’t like watching porn this is NOT the case with swingers and to be honest I think many view it as an extension to their swinging. Many groups and surveys say that many women are now viewing porn and are viewed as industry standards and that now one third of all visitors to porn sites are women.

A UK study was recently done within a popular women magazine and 47% of respondents that completed the pool said they’ve used porn or erotica as a way to find out more about swinging and still carried on using many sites and often will look at these with husbands / partners and many porn sites are saying theirs an increase in female surfers, whether that’s true or not I’m not sure but with swinging websites hitting record numbers you can see why women turn to porn to find information out.

It seems female porn surfers has many diverse tastes in porn and I’m sure many webmasters have asked “What do women want in porn?” as tastes can be as diverse as women themselves after all for straight female swingers or bi swingers attractive to both sexes are a plus, that might sound obvious but just remember that often, guys in porn are cast for their size or cum-shot distance. Women are also happy to watch soft porn enjoying the more tender moments between either two women, male & females so even some of the more softer threesome porn dvds

Sometimes for women its all about having appealing female stars or different body types and even some that want to further consider anal sex so turn to dvds to find out more about this and anyone that’s ever looking into instructional type porn will know about the porn legend that is Nina Hartley, who wants us all to have a fucking good time and with all of her adult DVDS offers help from everything you could ever consider and covers many topics

So not only do wives & girls streaming and buy porn dvds they are now becoming growing in number and could one day maybe even out number men when it comes to looking at porn websites



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MiShaun Taylor asked:


Being addicted to internet pornography or having a spouse who is addicted to it is definitely a difficult situation to deal with. However, there are different programs that you can join that will provide help and support, which is a large part of what it takes to get through a porn addiction. Here are some of the best programs to help you stop internet porn addiction:

Recoveries Anonymous - http://www.r-a.org/i-internet-porn-addiction.htm

This is an online program that focuses on the 12 steps in order to help you get through your porn addiction. They welcome all people, no matter what kind of problems they have. One thing that is unique about this is that you can start your own group on this site. So, once you have gotten through your internet porn addiction, you can dedicate time to helping others get through the same addiction that you suffered from. Who better to help them? This is a great program for you or your spouse

Pure Online - http://www.pureonline.com

This is a 30-day program that caters to many different individuals. With their men’s workshop, men can find a comfortable place to deal with their porn addiction and their wives are able to receive telephone calls from a counselor to help them deal with the issues they face. Having a husband who is addicted to porn is very difficult and can almost make a woman wonder what’s wrong with her. This is the kind of thing you get help with while your husband gets cured of his porn addiction. There are also workshops for single women and single men who are addicted to porn. There is also a ton of information available on this website.

Wendi.com - http://www.wendi.com/html/porn_addiction.html

This is a website that offers help for porn addiction through meditation and hypnosis CDs. There are four different CDs that contain 13 hypnosis sessions aimed at helping you overcome porn addiction and seek real and meaningful relationships, whether they are with your spouse or with a new love. These sessions cover letting go of the porn, healing, reconnecting, and much more.

SASH - http://sash.net/content/view/47/52/

This is a great resource for people who are spouses of an internet porn addict as well as people who are internet porn addicts themselves. With this program, you can find out if you truly are an internet porn addict, and you can find lists of groups in your area. While many people find online resources adequate enough to help them overcome their porn addiction, many others want to participate in an actual group meeting where they can speak to others face to face about their porn addiction.

A Place of Hope - http://www.aplaceofhope.com/internet.html

This is a resource for many different addicts, including internet porn addicts. They work with the addict in a family-oriented treatment plan. When the key is to stop porn, it’s also important to find value in the family and the marriage or relationship that you have. This assists the porn addict in finding help and hope for a cure to the addiction. They also focus on the ‘whole person’ rather than just the pornography aspect. This helps to find the root of the addiction and gives a better chance for healing.

Search through the list of resources and programs above to find something that is right for you. You don’t have to live with this addiction, whether you are the one with the problem or if your spouse is the one suffering.



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Akhila Choudhary asked:


A porn website promotion company always needs to be in constant touch with the latest advancement in the designing world. It’s imperative because the more you enhance your pictures using the editing tools, the more it will give the pleasure to the visitors’ eyes. Porn website services providers are therefore using smart graphics editing software like Photoshop. Photoshop is endowed with a number of photo enhancement tools that are used across all porn web design companies.

When one browses a porn site looking for the best images of the gorgeous ladies, the site needs to strive hard to cater to the visitor’s needs. All porn sites understand this, and that’s why they leave no stone unturned to incorporate the images of the hottest girls on the planet on their sites. Porn website design professional often uses the Smudge tool of Photoshop in enhancing the look and feel of many an erotic images for the site he works for.

The Smudge Tool of Photoshop is among the best photo enhancement techniques used today. This tool creates a scintillating effect by picking up color from where the user initially placed the tool and then smearing it into adjacent colors. It’s mainly used by a porn website designer in rubbing out a blemish or touching up details in an image of a sexy brunette.

The Smudge Tool of Photoshop looks like a pointed finger and it can be selected from the drop-down menu. User can set the strength (pressure) of the tool that determines how powerful the smudge is. Then he needs to specify a blending mode and strength on the options bar controlling pixels impact in the targeted image. Positioning and dragging the cursor on the point of the image that needs smudging, one could easily get smudging of colors. Using brush options like “Darker” and “Lighter”, the intensity of the smudge can also be changed. A porn site design expert uses these functions to give darker or lighter effects to those tempting spots of the hotties. Thus a porn website design company offers the best in the business to its clients.



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Awosoft asked:


The only Porn Filter can disable web proxy

Aobo Porn Blocker 2.0 Released

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Ingrid Sure asked:


How many times have you entered online with the intention of searching for free porn videos? While you may choose not to answer this question, the truth is that there are millions of people out there, enjoying the anonymity offered by the Internet. They are able to see as much porn as they desire, just by opening their computer and logging onto the great World Wide Web. Hundreds of websites exist but only few offer high-quality diverse porn content.

If you are interested in free porn, then the Internet is practically heaven. You can browse through amateur categories, see free porn videos with Asian girls and discover kinkier stuff like fellatio. Many people also prefer to seek porn material with celebrities, enjoying hardcore scenarios and lesbian content just as much. In some cases, free porn videos depicting teens are extremely popular.

No matter if you are interested in free porn videos or porn photo galleries, you can still find what you’re looking for on user-generated websites. These galleries contain an incredible number of things that could incite your curiosity, with anal and softcore porn scenes. Free porn may also include hentai cartoons, videos depicting women with large breasts and plenty of cumshots for your delight. Apart from offering porn material with amateur couples and wild orgies, these websites also offer multiple links to similar resources, suggesting places where you can find free porn videos.

The reason why so many people are interested in free porn videos it because these short movies contain their deepest sexual fantasies. Someone interested in group sex, adult intercourse or voyeurism can very well explore those passions through free porn. While there are many controversies around that subject, the number of people searching the web for porn has increased a lot in the past few years. It helped that many of these free porn videos include celebs, kinky sexual activities and cultural differences. You can see toon sex, Lindsay Lohan and Japanese girls on the same website, enjoying the clarity of the image and the sexual gratification offered by such a video.

Free porn videos allow for curiosity to come out of the closet. They allow one to explore unexpected sides of his/her sexuality, browsing free porn material in which a girl engages in sexual intercourse with two guys, fetishistic couples are depicted or public sex is presented. It’s all about overcoming society’s taboos and exploring free porn. You might choose to view a video with a babysitter being the center of attention but just as well you might enjoy free porn videos with college blondes or Dutch girls. In fact, you can see a wide variety of girls filmed, Russian or Filipino for that matter.

There are even more special porn movies to be found. While searching, you may find a girl who has lost at truth and dare, being punished as such. You can see what couples do inside a taxi, watch a schoolgirl with the school janitor and see lesbians enjoying their bodies. If you are a fan of the doggystyle position, no sweat. There are plenty of free porn videos for you to enjoy, probably just as many with sexy scenes on the kitchen table and shy Asian dollies. For more acquired tastes, exotic girls present themselves while playing with dildos, masturbating or performing unique massage therapy. Orgy parties, threesomes and sporty couples complete the scenario. Prepare your eyes for a genuine feast!



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